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What to do if…
a marketplace buyer or seller dispute puts a large amount of your money on hold

Short answer

Keep everything inside the marketplace/payment platform process, save your evidence now, and submit a clear, deadline-safe response in the official case thread.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t move the conversation to private email/WhatsApp or agree to “off-platform” refunds, returns, or payments to “unlock” the money.
  • Don’t close a dispute unless you’re fully satisfied and the platform confirms your options (closing can reduce your ability to escalate).
  • Don’t send extra money, gift cards, crypto, or “verification” payments to anyone claiming it will release the hold.
  • Don’t ship a replacement or accept a return without tracked delivery and a documented return process.
  • Don’t delete messages, listings, receipts, tracking pages, or photos.

What to do now

  1. Capture the essentials (so you don’t rely on memory). Write down or screenshot: case ID, transaction ID, amount, dates, and the stated reason for the hold (e.g., “item not received”, “not as described”, “account review/limitation”).
  2. Save evidence before anything changes. Download/screenshot: the listing, order details, payment confirmation, all messages, dispute status page, and any return instructions.
  3. Check whether it’s a platform hold or a card/bank authorisation. In your bank/card app, see if the payment is pending/authorised or completed. If it’s only pending, the bank often can’t “release” it on request—your best move is still to follow the platform dispute steps while you monitor whether it settles or drops off.
  4. If you’re the seller: upload proof where the platform actually evaluates it.
    • Enter tracking in the platform/payment system (not just in chat).
    • Upload proof of delivery (carrier page showing delivered; signature/delivery photo if available).
    • If it’s “not as described,” upload your dispatch proof + condition proof (photos of the item and packaging taken just before sending; any serial numbers/unique marks you recorded).
  5. If you’re the buyer: keep your protection by using the platform’s return/dispute flow.
    • If a return is required, use a tracked service and keep the receipt and tracking proof.
    • Photograph the item and packaging before returning, and keep proof of exactly what you sent.
  6. Post one calm, structured response in the case thread. Include a short timeline (“Ordered… Shipped… Delivered… Issue raised…”) and attach only the key evidence. Avoid long arguments—case reviewers look for dates and documents.
  7. Set reminders for deadlines shown in the case. Missing a response window can seriously weaken your position because decisions may be made using only what’s been submitted by the deadline.
  8. If the hold is with a payment provider/bank and support isn’t resolving it, start a formal complaint. Use the firm’s complaint route (not just live chat), keep a copy of what you sent, and note the date you complained.
  9. Know the UK escalation path (without rushing it).
    • For many UK financial firms, you can usually escalate to the Financial Ombudsman Service after you get a “final response” letter, or if you don’t get a final response within the required timeframe.
    • Timeframes can differ: complaints about payment services/e-money are often handled on a faster timetable than other financial complaints, so keep it factual and date-stamped.
  10. If you paid by card and the platform route is failing, ask your card provider what protections apply. Chargeback is available for many debit/credit card purchases (scheme rules vary). If you paid by credit card, Section 75 may apply for many purchases between £100 and £30,000, but marketplace/intermediary setups can make eligibility more complex—ask your card issuer based on the exact payment chain.

What can wait

  • You don’t need to decide today whether to sue, post publicly, or pursue multiple escalation routes at once.
  • You don’t need to prove intent or “win the argument” right now—focus on preserving evidence and meeting deadlines.
  • You don’t need to accept any “quick fix” outside the platform to get relief.

Important reassurance

A large hold can feel like your money has disappeared, but holds are commonly used during disputes and account reviews. The most protective early actions are simple: keep it official (in-platform), keep it documented, and don’t miss deadlines.

Scope note

This is first steps only to stabilise a marketplace/payment dispute and reduce irreversible mistakes. Later choices may depend on the specific platform, the payment method, and the dispute reason.

Important note

This is general information, not legal or financial advice. Rules vary by marketplace, payment provider, and card scheme, and high-value disputes can turn on small details (deadlines, tracking type, and what was agreed in writing).

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