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What to do if…
a merchant confirms a refund but the money never shows up in your account

Short answer

Get the refund’s trace/reference details from the merchant (especially the ARN for card refunds) and ask your bank/card provider to trace the refund through the card network—don’t just keep waiting.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t assume “refunded” means “in your account already” — it can be initiated but not yet posted to you.
  • Don’t keep waiting until you miss dispute windows (card-scheme time limits are often around 120 days, and can vary).
  • Don’t start multiple conflicting routes at once (e.g., asking the merchant to re-refund while also raising a bank dispute) without tracking exactly what you opened and when.
  • Don’t close the account/card or switch banks until this is resolved (it can make tracing harder).
  • Don’t stop paying a credit card bill because you expect a refund — avoid late fees/credit file issues while it’s being sorted.

What to do now

  1. Freeze the facts (2 minutes): write down the merchant name, amount, date they said they refunded, how you originally paid (debit card / credit card / bank transfer / Direct Debit / PayPal or wallet), and screenshot any “refund confirmed” messages.
  2. Check the common “it’s there but hidden” problems:
    • Check pending, transactions, and your latest statement (some apps show credits differently).
    • If the card was replaced since the purchase, note that (refunds often still route through, but may need tracing).
    • If the account is closed, ask your bank where incoming credits go (sometimes they get redirected or handled separately).
  3. Ask the merchant for the trace details (use their exact words):
    • For card refunds: request the ARN (Acquirer Reference Number) (or “refund trace/reference number”), plus the refund date/time and amount.
    • Ask them to confirm the last 4 digits of the card/payment method they refunded to.
    • If they say they can’t provide an ARN, ask for any processor reference or “refund confirmation/receipt” that your bank can use to locate it.
  4. Contact your bank/card provider and ask them to trace it using the ARN/reference:
    • Say: “The merchant confirmed the refund and provided the ARN/reference. Please trace the refund and tell me whether it’s been received, rejected, or misrouted.”
    • If the first person can’t help, ask for the team that handles card transaction disputes/chargebacks.
  5. If you paid by card and it still isn’t showing, protect your options quickly:
    • Ask about chargeback if the credit/refund isn’t arriving. Time limits are scheme-based and are often around 120 days (sometimes longer depending on the scenario), so raise it promptly.
    • If you paid by credit card and the purchase qualifies, ask whether Section 75 might apply (it’s separate from chargeback).
  6. If this was a Direct Debit (not a card payment):
    • Tell your bank you want a refund under the Direct Debit Guarantee if there was an error (wrong amount, wrong date, or the payment shouldn’t have been taken).
    • If your bank refunds you and it later turns out there was no error, you may be asked to repay—but you don’t need to resolve that question before you start the guarantee process.
  7. If your bank/card provider won’t act, switch to the complaint route:
    • Make a formal complaint to the bank/card provider and keep the reference number.
    • If you don’t get a final response within 8 weeks, or you’re unhappy with the final response, you can usually take it to the Financial Ombudsman Service (typically within 6 months of the final response date).

What can wait

  • You don’t need to decide right now whether to leave reviews, threaten legal action, or argue with customer service scripts.
  • You don’t need to work out who is “at fault” (merchant vs bank) before you act—tracing with the ARN/reference usually answers that.
  • You don’t need a huge evidence pack; the basics plus the merchant’s confirmation and trace/reference details are enough to start.

Important reassurance

This is common and usually fixable. “Refund processed” often means the merchant has initiated it—not that your bank has credited it yet. Asking for a trace using the ARN/reference is a normal, routine request.

Scope note

These are first steps to locate the refund and prevent you missing key dispute windows. If tracing and a dispute/claim still don’t resolve it, you may need extra complaints support—but you don’t need that to begin.

Important note

This is general information, not legal or financial advice. Exact processes and timelines vary by bank, card scheme, and payment method. If you’re unsure which payment method was used, start by checking the original transaction details in your banking app/statement.

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