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What to do if…
a person near you appears intoxicated or agitated and their behaviour is escalating

Short answer

Create distance and put a barrier between you and them, then move to a staffed/safer place. If you think violence is imminent or someone is in immediate danger, call 999.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t argue, mock, “tell them off,” or try to “win” the interaction.
  • Don’t touch, restrain, or block their path unless you must to escape immediate harm.
  • Don’t follow them, chase them, or “teach them a lesson.”
  • Don’t corner them (including by standing in doorways or at the bottom of stairs).
  • Don’t pull out your phone and film in a way that escalates or makes you a target.
  • Don’t accept a lift from them or get into a confined space with them (car, lift, small room).
  • Don’t assume it’s “just drink” — some medical emergencies can look similar.

What to do now

  1. Move yourself first. Step back and angle away. Aim for an exit, an open space, or somewhere with staff/other people (shop counter, reception, bus driver area, station office). Keep your hands visible and your voice low if you have to speak.
  2. Put something between you and them. A table, parked car, doorway (without blocking it), or other people at a safe distance. Avoid being trapped against walls, platforms, or the edge of a road.
  3. Get help from the “owner” of the space. If you’re in a pub, shop, venue, station, or on transport: tell staff immediately in simple terms: “A person is getting aggressive near the entrance; can you help keep people safe and call police if needed?”
  4. Decide quickly: danger vs. non-emergency.
    • Call 999 if it could get heated or violent very soon, someone is being threatened/blocked, a weapon is mentioned/seen, or you can’t safely leave.
    • If it’s concerning but not urgent, call 101 later or report online when you’re safe.
  5. If someone may have alcohol poisoning or is unconscious, treat it as urgent — without putting yourself at risk. Call 999 if someone has lost consciousness, had a seizure, stopped breathing, or you think alcohol poisoning is possible. If it’s safe and you’re able, stay with them, put them in the recovery position if they’ve passed out but are breathing, keep them warm, and keep checking breathing. If it’s not safe to stay close, get staff/others to help while you keep distance and wait for responders.
  6. If you can’t speak safely on a 999 call, use the Silent Solution steps. Still dial 999. If you can, whisper, cough, or tap the phone to respond. On a mobile, if prompted, press 55 (or tap) to confirm it’s a genuine emergency so you can be put through to police. (On a landline, staying silent with background noise can also be transferred — but try to follow the operator’s prompts if you can.)
  7. If you’re with someone else, coordinate in one sentence. Example: “You go to staff and call 999; I’ll guide us to the exit.” Don’t split up unless it increases safety.

What can wait

  • You don’t need to work out whether it’s alcohol, drugs, mental health, or “bad behaviour” right now.
  • You don’t need to decide whether to make a complaint, give a statement, or “prove” what happened.
  • You don’t need to calm them down yourself — your job is to get safe and get appropriate help.

Important reassurance

Feeling on-edge or frozen in this kind of situation is a normal body response. Leaving quickly, changing your route, or calling 999 early is a reasonable safety choice when behaviour is escalating.

Scope note

This is first-steps guidance to reduce immediate risk and avoid escalation. Once you’re safe, you can decide whether to report, seek support, or follow up with venue staff or transport operators.

Important note

This guide is general information, not legal advice or a substitute for professional emergency, medical, or safeguarding support. If you believe someone is in immediate danger, call 999.

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