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What to do if…
a stranger insists on helping with your luggage and will not take no for an answer

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Short answer

Keep physical control of your bags and move straight to a staffed, busy, well-lit place such as a ticket office, information desk, shop counter, barrier line, or security desk. If they touch your bags, block you, follow you, or keep pushing after you refuse, treat it as a safety issue and get help immediately.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t hand over your luggage, even “just for a second”.
  • Don’t follow them to a quieter spot, side corridor, lift, taxi rank, car park, or “easier route”.
  • Don’t open your wallet, passport holder, phone banking app, or bag pockets while they are close.
  • Don’t let yourself get boxed in between them and a wall, door, barrier, train carriage, or lift.
  • Don’t argue, bargain, or explain repeatedly; one clear refusal is enough.
  • Don’t leave bags unattended to create distance, especially in a station, airport, or transport hub.
  • Don’t struggle over property if doing so could put you at greater risk.

What to do now

  1. Secure your bags before speaking. Put straps over your shoulder, hold handles close to your body, keep zips and outer pockets facing inward, and move your backpack to your front if you can.
  2. Use one clear sentence. Say firmly: “No. Don’t touch my bags.” Repeat once if needed, then stop explaining.
  3. Move towards staff, not privacy. Walk directly to a staffed point: ticket office, station staff, platform dispatcher, security desk, airport information desk, hotel desk, shop counter, or café counter.
  4. Make the behaviour visible. If they keep following, say loudly enough for others to hear: “I don’t know you. Stop following me.”
  5. Ask one person for a simple task. Point to a nearby member of staff or another adult and say: “Can you stay with me while I speak to staff?”
  6. Use the right help for where you are.
    • At a railway station or on a train: contact British Transport Police for non-emergencies by texting 61016 or calling 0800 40 50 40. A text to 61016 may cost a small amount depending on your provider.
    • Away from the rail network: contact police on 999 if a crime is happening now, someone is threatening violence, or someone is in immediate danger. Use 101 for non-emergency police contact.
    • Inside a venue such as an airport, coach station, shopping centre, hotel, or event space: go to security, reception, information, or another staffed desk first if that is the fastest safe place.
  7. If they grab, pull, or block you, prioritise your body over the bag. Step towards staff or a crowd, keep your phone and passport with you if possible, and call 999 if you feel in immediate danger.
  8. Once you are away from them, check essentials quickly. Check your phone, bank cards, cash, keys, passport, tickets, and outer pockets. If anything is missing, tell staff or police and freeze or cancel affected cards as soon as you can.

What can wait

  • Deciding whether it was a scam, a theft attempt, or someone being pushy.
  • Writing a full statement or remembering every detail perfectly.
  • Replacing items, disputing payments, asking about CCTV, or making insurance claims.
  • Posting warnings online or confronting the person.
  • Deciding whether to continue the journey in exactly the same way.

Important reassurance

Freezing, feeling rude, or needing a moment to think is a normal reaction. You are allowed to refuse help, keep hold of your belongings, and move to staff without giving a reason.

Scope note

These are first steps only: they are meant to help you create a safer pause, keep control of essential items, and reach staff or police support. Later decisions, such as reporting details, replacing documents, or dealing with stolen property, may need help from the relevant transport operator, venue, bank, insurer, police, or another specialist service.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, medical, financial, therapeutic, or other professional advice. If you believe you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999.

Additional Resources

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