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What to do if…
several close family members are seriously injured in the same incident

Produced and maintained by PanicStation.org Published: Last reviewed: Editorial policy UK guide

Short answer

If anyone may still be in danger or has not been reached by emergency services, move to a safe place and call 999. Once responders are involved, focus on confirmed information, staying reachable and arranging one reliable family contact.

Do not do these things

  • Do not enter an unsafe area or interfere with emergency responders.
  • Avoid moving a seriously injured person unless they are in immediate danger or the 999 call handler tells you to.
  • Do not give an injured person food or drink unless the 999 call handler or a healthcare professional tells you to.
  • Do not drive if you are shaking, exhausted, distracted or unable to concentrate safely.
  • Do not rely on social media posts, rumours or unofficial casualty lists.
  • Do not post names, photographs or medical details before the information is confirmed and the people concerned have been considered.
  • Avoid having several relatives repeatedly contact the same hospital or emergency service for identical updates.
  • Do not make major family, financial, legal or relationship decisions while the immediate situation is still unfolding.

What to do now

  1. If emergency services are not already dealing with the incident, call 999. Give the exact location, briefly explain what happened, say that several people are injured, mention any continuing hazards and provide your telephone number.
  2. Follow the call handler’s instructions. If you are at the scene, remain in the safe place responders direct you to and promptly report if anyone is unconscious, not breathing normally, bleeding heavily, trapped or getting worse.
  3. Make one written list of each injured family member’s full name, date of birth if known, telephone number and last confirmed location. Do not delay an emergency call while gathering these details.
  4. Record only confirmed information: where each person was taken, which hospital or ward is involved, who provided the information and when. Mark anything uncertain as unconfirmed.
  5. Ask one trusted adult to act as the main family contact. Ask them to update other relatives so fewer people make repeated calls for the same information.
  6. Use contact details published by the police, emergency services or hospital. If a dedicated family information number is announced, use it. Otherwise, contact the relevant hospital through its official website or switchboard and follow its instructions.
  7. Arrange immediate practical cover for children, dependent adults, pets and essential medicines. Ask another person to drive, accompany you or bring basic items such as identification, a phone charger and your own necessary medication.
  8. At the hospital, ask staff where relatives should wait, who can receive updates and what visiting arrangements apply. Staff may need the patient’s permission before sharing confidential medical information.
  9. Ask someone to stay with you if you are alone, too distressed to drive or struggling to take in information. If you cannot keep yourself or someone else safe, call 999 or go to A&E.

What can wait

You do not need to decide now about insurance claims, complaints, legal action, work arrangements, media enquiries, long-term care, travel changes or who may be responsible. A complete account of the incident can also wait until immediate safety, treatment and reliable communication are established.

Important reassurance

You do not have to coordinate every person, hospital and relative alone. Concentrating on one confirmed fact and one immediate task at a time is enough while emergency and hospital teams manage clinical care.

Scope note

This guide covers the first safe actions after one incident has seriously injured several close family members. Later decisions about treatment, care, investigations, work, finances or legal matters may require information from the relevant hospital, police or an appropriate specialist.

Important note

This is general information, not medical, legal or other professional advice. Follow instructions from 999 call handlers, emergency responders, police and hospital staff, as they can assess the circumstances directly.

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