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What to do if…
someone sends you a screenshot of your home address and demands you do something right now

Short answer

Pause and don’t comply. Treat it as a threat/scam until proven otherwise, keep evidence, and contact the police immediately if you feel at risk of harm.

Do not do these things

Don’t pay, send codes, gift cards, crypto, or bank transfers “just to make it stop”.
Don’t keep negotiating or trying to “reason” with them (it often increases pressure and demands).
Don’t click links, install apps, or log in via links they send.
Don’t share more personal info (date of birth, workplace, family names, photos that show your home or street, travel plans).
Don’t post publicly about it in the moment (it can reveal more details and escalate attention).
Don’t go outside to “check for them” alone if you feel spooked—get stable and supported first.

What to do now

Get to a safer pause (30–60 seconds).
If you’re at home, lock the door and stay inside. If you’re out, step into a staffed/public place (shop, café) or near other people. Keep your phone charged.
Decide if this is an emergency right now.
- Call 999 if you believe there’s immediate risk (they say they’re outside/on the way, threats of violence, you’re being followed, or you feel in danger).
- If it’s not immediate danger but still threatening/harassing, call 101 or use your local force’s official online reporting (many forces offer this) to log it.
Preserve evidence before anything disappears.
Screenshot the full thread (including username/handle, phone number/email, timestamps). Capture the profile page too. Write down what they demanded, any payment details, and where they contacted you.
Stop the “live pressure.”
After saving evidence, block/mute and report the account/message in the app. If they contact you again from new accounts, don’t engage—save, report, block.
If money was demanded or you already sent anything, contact your bank immediately.
Use the number on the back of your card or your bank’s official app. Say you’re being extorted/scammed and ask about stopping transfers, securing accounts/cards, and fraud monitoring. If you paid via crypto or gift cards, options may be limited, but it’s still worth reporting and locking down linked accounts.
Use the right reporting route for fraud/cyber demands (when relevant).
If this involves money, “pay now” demands, or other fraud/cyber crime:
- In England, Wales and Northern Ireland, report via Report Fraud.
- In Scotland, report to Police Scotland (use 101 for non-emergency).
  If you’re unsure which applies, start with 101 for your local police advice.
If it arrived by email, report it safely.
Don’t reply. Forward the email to the UK suspicious email reporting service, then delete it from your inbox and deleted items.
Do a quick account-safety check (only what’s necessary right now).
If you clicked anything, or if their message claims they “hacked you”: change your email password first, then enable two-step verification. Then check your main accounts for unfamiliar logins/devices and sign out of other sessions.
Make a small, practical home-safety plan for tonight.
Tell anyone you live with what’s happening. Agree: don’t open the door to unexpected callers; keep phones on; if someone turns up, call police rather than engaging. If you have a doorbell camera, enable notifications and keep any footage.

What can wait

You don’t need to figure out exactly how they got your address right now.
You don’t need to write the perfect report—capture evidence and make initial contact.
You don’t need to “fix your whole online presence” tonight.
You don’t need to decide whether to confront them, warn contacts, or post about it.

Important reassurance

Seeing your home address used like this is genuinely frightening. Addresses are often obtained from public records, data-broker sites, leaks, or old accounts—so it doesn’t automatically mean they’re nearby. The safest move is to slow the situation down, preserve evidence, and bring in official support.

Scope note

These are first steps only—focused on reducing immediate risk and avoiding irreversible mistakes. Later follow-up (privacy clean-up, longer-term safety steps, and ongoing case updates) can happen once the urgent pressure has passed.

Important note

This is general information, not legal advice. If you feel unsafe or threatened, contact the police urgently. If you’re unsure whether it’s “serious enough,” it’s still okay to report and ask for guidance.

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What to do if…someone sends you a screenshot of your home address and demands you do something right now