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What to do if…
someone tries to follow you into an elevator and you do not feel safe letting them in

Short answer

Don’t get into the lift with them. Step away, let the doors close, and move to a staffed/public area (reception, concierge, security, or back outside) so you’re not alone.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t let politeness override your gut feeling.
  • Don’t physically block the doorway with your body or get into a pushing match.
  • Don’t step into the lift “just to end the awkwardness” (that’s how you get trapped).
  • Don’t hold the doors open while you decide—step away and create space instead.
  • Don’t lead them to your flat floor or any quiet corridor.
  • Don’t take out your keys/access fob and advertise where you live if you’re unsure you’re safe.
  • Don’t walk deeper into the building to “lose them” if that takes you away from people and exits.

What to do now

  1. Create separation immediately. Stay out of the lift car. Step back and let the doors close. (Only use buttons if they help you step away cleanly and leave the area.)
  2. Break the “alone with them” situation. Move to somewhere with people: reception/concierge, a staffed shop/café, or back to the street/entrance where there’s visibility and footfall.
  3. Make it obvious you’re not isolated. Call someone and speak out loud (or pretend to): say where you are (“I’m in the lobby by the lifts at [building name]”). Keep moving towards people while you’re on the call.
  4. If you’re in a building with security or management, involve them now. Go straight to the desk/office or use the building intercom/help point. Ask for an escort to your floor or to have someone meet you at the lifts.
  5. If you feel threatened or the person won’t let you disengage, call 999. Tell the operator your exact location (building name, address, lobby/lift bank) and what is happening right now. If you can’t speak safely, still call 999 and follow the operator prompts/stay on the line.
  6. If you ended up inside the lift with them and feel unsafe, prioritise getting back to people. If possible, exit at the next busy/visible floor (or the lobby) rather than going to your home floor. Use the lift alarm/help button if you need urgent attention, then get to a public area.
  7. Once you’re safe, report what happened through the right channels. Tell building management/security (so they can address tailgating and check CCTV/access). If it’s not an emergency but you want to report it to police, use 101 or your local force’s online reporting.

What can wait

  • You do not need to decide right now whether to confront them, “teach them a lesson,” or prove anything.
  • You do not need to identify who they are before you move somewhere safer.
  • You do not need to make a full report on the spot if you’re shaken—your first job is to be safe and not alone.

Important reassurance

It’s normal to feel embarrassed or to second-guess yourself. You are allowed to prioritise safety over social comfort, and stepping away is a reasonable response even if they turn out to be harmless.

Scope note

This is first-steps-only guidance for the moment you feel unsafe at a lift. After you’re safe, you may choose to involve building management, workplace security, or the police depending on what happened.

Important note

This is general information, not professional advice. If you believe you’re in immediate danger, call 999. Trust your instincts and choose the option that gets you into a safer, more public place fastest.

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