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What to do if…
you get a message that includes details about your location that you did not share

Short answer

Treat it as a potential safety issue first: get to a safer setting (with other people if possible), don’t reply, and preserve the message. If you feel in immediate danger or the sender seems nearby, call 999.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t reply to “test” them or argue (it can escalate and gives them more information).
  • Don’t click links, open attachments, scan QR codes, or install anything they send.
  • Don’t send confirming details (“yes that’s my street / I’m at…”), photos, or live location.
  • Don’t agree to meet, “prove you’re real,” or move to a private chat app because they demand it.
  • Don’t pay money, gift cards, or crypto if they threaten you (payment often leads to more demands).
  • Don’t post about it publicly while you’re still exposed (it can attract pile-ons or copycats).

What to do now

  1. Move to a safer pause point. If you’re alone, go somewhere with people (shop, café, reception, neighbour), lock doors if you’re at home, and avoid predictable routines for the next few hours.
  2. Decide whether this is an emergency.
    • If you think you’re at risk right now (they mention seeing you, being nearby, or you feel unsafe): call 999.
    • If it’s not immediate danger but you feel threatened or harassed: call 101 (many forces also let you report online).
  3. Preserve the evidence without engaging. Take screenshots showing the sender name/number/handle, timestamps, and the location text. Keep the original thread and note any links, usernames, or payment demands.
  4. Stop any location sharing that could explain it (quick privacy check).
    • Turn off any live location sharing you’ve enabled (messaging apps, map apps, “Find My”/family sharing).
    • Review which apps have location permission and set them to “Never” or “While using” where appropriate.
  5. Treat an account/device link as possible and lock it down.
    • Change the password on your email account first (email control often lets someone reset other passwords).
    • Then change the password on the account the message arrived on, sign out of other sessions/devices where possible, and turn on two-step verification (2SV).
    • Check for suspicious email forwarding rules.
  6. Report it in the right place.
    • Report/flag the message in the app/platform and block the sender.
    • If there’s a cybercrime/fraud angle (account takeover, extortion, scam), report via Report Fraud if you’re in England, Wales or Northern Ireland. If you’re in Scotland, report to Police Scotland (101 for non-emergency; 999 if you’re in immediate danger).
  7. Tell one trusted person what’s happening (briefly, practically). Share: where you are, what was said, and what you’re doing next. If you need to move locations, ask them to stay on the phone.

What can wait

  • You do not need to figure out exactly how they got the location right now.
  • You do not need to confront anyone you suspect or message mutual contacts.
  • You do not need to scrub your entire online presence immediately—focus first on safety, evidence, and account/location lockdown.
  • You can review longer-term privacy steps (deeper device checks, changing numbers/accounts, data broker removals) later, once you’re stable.

Important reassurance

This kind of message is often meant to shock you into reacting. Sometimes the “location” comes from something mundane (public posts, old data, broad IP-based location, or previously enabled location sharing). Even if it’s a bluff, taking calm safety steps and tightening sharing/account access is still the right move.

Scope note

These are first steps to reduce immediate risk and prevent irreversible mistakes. If the messages continue, you may need additional support (ongoing incident logging, formal reporting, and safety planning).

Important note

This guide is general information, not legal advice. If you feel unsafe, trust your instincts and use emergency services.

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