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What to do if…
your intimate photos or videos are shared without your consent in a group chat

Short answer

Get yourself to a calmer, safer moment, then act quickly to limit further sharing: ask for deletion, report the content in-app, and use UK specialist support to help with takedown and next steps.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t argue back-and-forth in the group chat or try to “shame” the sharer — it often increases re-sharing.
  • Don’t send the images/videos to anyone “as proof” (including friends). That can spread them further.
  • Don’t pay, comply, or bargain if someone is threatening to share more — especially if they demand money, more images, or silence.
  • Don’t repeatedly open the content to “check” it — it spikes distress and doesn’t help containment.
  • Don’t assume it’s “too late” to remove content — takedowns can still work after sharing.

What to do now

  1. Create a short safety pause. Move to a private place. If you’re in immediate physical danger, call 999.
  2. Limit spread inside the group chat (briefly, once). Post: “This is private and shared without my consent. Delete it now and do not forward it.” If there’s a group admin, message them directly to remove the content and remove the sender.
  3. Report the content in the app immediately. Use the platform’s report tools (WhatsApp/Telegram/Signal/Messenger, etc.) for non-consensual intimate imagery and request removal (wording varies by platform).
  4. Write down key details (without re-sharing the media). Note the platform, group name, who posted it (usernames/phone numbers), and date/time. If you take screenshots, aim for chat context (who/when/where) rather than saving the intimate image itself. Store any evidence privately and don’t send it around.
  5. Get specialist UK help for removal/containment. If you’re 18+, contact the Revenge Porn Helpline for confidential support and takedown help. You can also use StopNCII.org to help prevent re-uploads on participating platforms (hash-based; the image stays on your device).
  6. If you’re under 18 (or the images were taken when you were under 18): use child-safety removal routes. Don’t forward anything. Use Childline’s Report Remove tool (with the IWF) to help get images taken down, and seek support from Childline. If you feel at risk or pressured, involve a trusted adult and consider reporting to police.
  7. If there are threats, stalking, coercive control, or you know who did it: consider reporting. Use 999 if you’re in immediate danger; otherwise 101 (or your local force’s online reporting). You can also report anonymously to Crimestoppers.
  8. Tell one trusted person what’s happening. Ask them to help you file reports and keep track of actions so you’re not doing it alone.

What can wait

  • You do not need to decide right now whether to make a formal statement, pursue charges, or confront the person.
  • You do not need a perfect explanation message to the group — one clear deletion request is enough.
  • You do not need to “collect everything” — a few key details are enough to start getting help.

Important reassurance

Shock, panic, shame, anger, or numbness are common reactions to a sudden violation like this. You are not to blame for someone else sharing your private content. There are UK services that handle this every day, and containment/removal is often still possible.

Scope note

This covers first steps to reduce harm and slow further sharing. Later decisions (legal options, workplace/school involvement, ongoing safety planning, counselling) can come after you’re steadier and supported.

Important note

This is general information, not legal advice. If you are in immediate danger, call 999. If you feel overwhelmed or unsafe with yourself, you can call Samaritans on 116 123. If the content involves anyone under 18, do not forward it — use child-safety reporting/removal routes.

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