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What to do if…
a person near you appears intoxicated or agitated and their behaviour is escalating

Short answer

Increase distance, move toward a staffed/safer place, and be ready to call 911 if you think someone could be harmed. If you suspect alcohol overdose or another medical emergency, call 911 right away.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t argue, threaten, or try to “reason them into” calming down.
  • Don’t touch, restrain, or block their movement unless you must to escape immediate harm.
  • Don’t follow them, confront them, or try to record them in a way that escalates.
  • Don’t get into a confined space with them (car, elevator, small room) to “talk it out.”
  • Don’t assume they’ll “sleep it off” if they pass out — that can be dangerous.
  • Don’t give them more alcohol or unknown substances to “take the edge off.”

What to do now

  1. Move yourself first. Step back, angle away, and head for an exit, open space, or a staffed area (store counter, reception, security desk, transit operator). Keep your hands visible; keep your voice low if you must speak.
  2. Create a buffer and a barrier. Put a table, car, bench, or other solid object between you and them. Avoid being trapped against a wall, in a corner, or at the edge of traffic/platforms.
  3. Pull in the people who can act. If you’re in a venue, store, apartment building, campus, or on transit: tell staff/security immediately with a simple script: “A person is getting aggressive near the entrance; can you help keep people safe and call 911 if needed?”
  4. Call 911 early if harm feels possible. Call 911 if threats are being made, violence looks imminent, you see a weapon, someone is being followed/blocked, or you can’t safely leave. Give: exact location, what they’re doing, what they look like, and whether anyone is injured.
  5. Treat possible alcohol overdose/medical danger as an emergency — but don’t put yourself in danger. Call 911 if someone is hard to wake, vomiting, having seizures, or breathing is slow/irregular. If it’s safe and you’re able, stay nearby, place them on their side (recovery position) to reduce choking risk, and watch for changes in breathing/responsiveness until help arrives. If it’s not safe to stay close, get staff/others to keep eyes on them while you keep distance and direct responders.
  6. Use 988 for crisis support when it’s safe — use 911 for emergencies. If the person seems in emotional distress or a mental health crisis and there’s no immediate physical danger, you (or a bystander) can contact 988 (call/text/chat) for guidance and support. If there is immediate danger or a medical emergency, choose 911.
  7. If you’re with someone, coordinate in one sentence. Example: “You find staff and call 911; I’ll guide us to the exit.” Avoid complicated plans.

What can wait

  • You don’t need to figure out whether it’s alcohol, drugs, mental health, or something else right now.
  • You don’t need to decide whether to report formally, give a statement, or “prove” what happened.
  • If you’re wondering about possible poisoning/substance exposure but there’s no emergency, you can consider calling Poison Control once you’re safe — you do not need to do that in the middle of an escalating situation.

Important reassurance

Freezing, feeling shaky, or second-guessing yourself is common when behavior is escalating. It’s reasonable to leave quickly, change direction, and call 911 before it turns into an injury.

Scope note

This is first-steps guidance to reduce immediate risk and avoid escalation. After you’re safe, you can decide what follow-up (reporting, documenting, notifying building/venue management) makes sense.

Important note

This guide is general information, not legal advice or a substitute for professional emergency, medical, or crisis services. If there is immediate danger or a possible overdose, call 911.

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