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What to do if…
a stranger approaches your car claiming there is an emergency and urges you to unlock the doors

Short answer

Keep your doors locked and windows up, and create distance (move the car if you safely can). If you feel threatened or they try the handle/block you, call 911.

Do not do these things

  • Do not unlock your doors or step out “just to check” what they’re pointing at.
  • Do not roll the window down more than a tiny crack, and don’t hand out your phone/keys/wallet.
  • Do not let them direct you to another location (“pull over there”, “follow me”, “open your trunk”).
  • Do not argue or try to physically push them away; focus on leaving safely.
  • Do not drive home if you think you’re being followed.

What to do now

  1. Lock down the car: doors locked, windows up, seatbelt on. Keep your attention on exits and your surroundings.
  2. Create space: if it’s safe, drive away. If you’re stopped in traffic, leave as much room in front as you can so you’re harder to “box in” and can pull out when a gap opens.
  3. Help safely (without unlocking): if they claim someone is hurt or there’s an emergency, call 911 yourself and give:
    • your exact location (address/nearest cross street/landmark),
    • what the person is claiming,
    • what they’re doing (e.g., “trying my door handle”, “blocking my car”).
  4. If anything feels threatening, treat it as an emergency: if they try the handle, demand you unlock, crowd your door, or block your vehicle, stay inside and call 911.
  5. Drive to a safer destination: go to a busy, well-lit business (gas station, grocery store) or a police/fire station if nearby. If you suspect you’re being followed, keep driving to a public place while on the phone with 911.
  6. Use attention-getters without opening up: a brief horn blast and hazard lights can draw witnesses while you remain locked inside.
  7. Once safe, document and report: note the person’s description, time/location, and any vehicle plate. Save dashcam footage if you have it.

What can wait

  • You don’t need to decide right now whether it was “definitely” a scam—treat it as a safety risk until you’re safe.
  • You don’t need to investigate their story from your seat or prove anything in the moment.
  • You don’t need to post about it right away; preserve details first.

Important reassurance

It’s common to feel conflicted about ignoring someone who says they need help. Calling 911 while staying locked in your car is a practical way to respond without putting yourself at unnecessary risk.

Scope note

This is first-steps-only guidance for the first minutes. If there was attempted entry, threats, or ongoing concern, follow up with local law enforcement reporting after you’re safe.

Important note

This is general safety information, not legal advice. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

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