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What to do if…
a stranger insists on helping with your luggage and will not take no for an answer

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Short answer

Keep hold of your bags and move into a staffed, public area, such as an airline counter, information desk, staffed ticket area, or busy shop counter. Ask staff for help immediately if the person keeps following you, touches your bags, or blocks your path; call 911 if you need immediate assistance from police.

Do not do these things

  • Do not hand over your luggage, even briefly.
  • Do not follow the person into a quieter area, elevator, parking garage, restroom corridor, or pickup area.
  • Do not take out your wallet or passport holder while the person is close to you. Use your phone as needed to contact help or reach staff.
  • Do not move toward a wall, doorway, train car, or other place where it may be harder to move away.
  • Do not keep debating after you have clearly said no.
  • Do not leave your bags unattended while creating distance.

What to do now

  1. Keep control of your bags. Hold handles firmly, keep straps on your body where possible, close accessible pockets, and bring a backpack or cross-body bag to your front.
  2. Use one clear sentence. Say: “No. Do not touch my bags.”
  3. Move directly to staff. Go to an airline counter, information desk, staffed ticket area, uniformed security officer, police officer, or busy shop counter. Tell staff: “This person will not leave me or my bags alone. Please help me stay here and contact security.”
  4. Make the situation clear if the person follows you. If it feels safe to do so, say loudly enough for nearby staff or other people to hear: “I do not know you. Stop following me. Do not touch my bags.”
  5. Ask one nearby person to stay with you. Say: “Please stand with me while I speak to staff.”
  6. Use official assistance if you need help with your bags. Ask staff what assistance is available rather than accepting help from the person pressuring you.
  7. Call 911 for an emergency. If the person grabs your luggage, blocks your path, threatens you, or otherwise creates a situation requiring immediate assistance from police, call 911. Tell staff or security as well if you can do so safely.
  8. If you are on Amtrak property or onboard an Amtrak train, report it promptly. Tell station or onboard personnel, contact a uniformed officer, call Amtrak Police at 800-331-0008, or send a text to APD11 (27311). Call 911 for an emergency requiring immediate assistance.
  9. Once you are in a safer place, check the items that were easiest to reach. Check your phone, wallet, payment cards, keys, passport or ID, and outer pockets. If something is missing, tell staff or police and lock or freeze affected payment cards.

What can wait

  • Deciding whether the person was trying to steal something or was only being pushy.
  • Writing a detailed account before you are in a safer place.
  • Replacing missing items, disputing charges, or asking about security footage.
  • Confronting the person or trying to get an explanation.

Important reassurance

You do not have to accept help with your bags or explain why you are saying no. Moving toward staff and asking for help is a reasonable response when someone ignores your boundary.

Scope note

These are first steps for reaching a safer, staffed place and getting immediate help. Later decisions, including reporting missing property or arranging replacement documents, may need help from staff, police, your bank, or another appropriate service.

Important note

This is general safety information, not legal, medical, financial, therapeutic, or other professional advice. Call 911 for an emergency requiring immediate assistance.

Additional Resources

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