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What to do if…
police contact you about someone else and ask for their location

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Short answer

Do not guess or lie about where the person is. For a phone, text, or email contact, verify the agency independently before sharing anything; if you feel pressured or unsure, say: “I am not answering questions until I have legal advice.”

Do not do these things

  • Do not guess, estimate, or speculate about the person’s location.
  • Do not give passwords, banking details, or your Social Security number to prove your identity.
  • Do not rely on caller ID, use a callback number supplied by the caller, or click links in an unexpected message.
  • Do not consent to a search of your home, car, phone, or messages just because you feel pressured.
  • Do not delete messages, alter records, coordinate a story, or take steps to interfere with officers.
  • Do not physically resist or block officers. State your position calmly and get legal advice.

What to do now

  1. For a call, text, or email, verify the contact independently. Ask for the person’s name, agency, and a badge number or case number if available. Treat those details as notes, not proof. End the contact, find the agency’s publicly listed number yourself, and call that number. Do not use a supplied callback number, caller ID, or a link in a message.

  2. Ask what the contact is about without filling in gaps. You can ask: “Am I being asked as a witness, or am I suspected of a crime?” They may not answer. Do not keep talking while waiting for clarification.

  3. Use one clear sentence if you do not want to answer. Say: “I am not answering questions until I have legal advice.” Then stop answering questions. If the contact is in person, you can ask: “Am I free to leave?” If the answer is yes, leave calmly. If an officer says you must identify yourself during a lawful stop, rules can vary by state and circumstances.

  4. If you choose to answer, keep it accurate and brief. If you genuinely do not know where the person is, you can say: “I do not know where they are right now.” Do not add guesses, possible addresses, or unverified details.

  5. If you know the location but feel unsure about sharing it, pause. Say: “I am not answering questions until I have legal advice.” Do not lie, delete messages, alter records, coordinate a story, or take steps to interfere with officers.

  6. If officers are at your door, keep the interaction calm. You can speak through the closed door first. Ask who they are and whether they have a warrant. If you do not want to consent, say: “I do not consent to entry or a search.” Rules about entry can depend on a warrant, consent, or emergency circumstances. Do not physically interfere if officers enter.

  7. If anyone may be in immediate danger, call 911. Describe the emergency plainly and separate what you know from what you are unsure about.

  8. Make a short written note after the contact. Record the date, time, agency, names, badge number or case number if given, what was asked, and what you said. If any warrant, subpoena, court order, or other legal document is presented, get prompt legal advice.

What can wait

  • You do not need to explain your relationship with the person during the first contact.
  • You do not need to decide immediately whether to give a fuller statement later.
  • You do not need to volunteer access to devices, passwords, messages, or documents because you feel pressured. If officers present legal paperwork, ask for a copy and get prompt legal advice.

Important reassurance

Feeling intimidated or struggling to think clearly is a normal stress response. A brief, accurate response or a clear decision not to answer until you have legal advice can reduce the chance of an impulsive mistake.

Scope note

These are first steps for the initial contact only. Later decisions may need advice from a lawyer familiar with the law in your state and the specific circumstances.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, medical, financial, therapeutic, or other professional advice. Rules can vary by state and by the circumstances of the contact.

Additional Resources

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