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What to do if…
someone approaches your car at a fuel pump and keeps trying to distract you from your wallet or phone

Short answer

Break the distraction and deny access: lock the car, put your wallet/phone away, stop engaging, and move to a safer place (inside by staff or into your locked car). If you feel threatened or a theft is happening, call 911; otherwise call the local non-emergency number once you’re safe.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t pull out your wallet, phone, cash, or cards to “check” anything while they’re close.
  • Don’t set your phone/wallet on the car roof, the pump, or the seat “for a second”.
  • Don’t keep car doors unlocked while you’re focused on the pump or keypad.
  • Don’t argue, follow them, or try to physically stop them if they dart for a door.
  • Don’t let yourself get positioned with your back to your car or your hands full.
  • Don’t move your car while anything is still connected to it (for example, the fuel nozzle).

What to do now

  1. Stop the interaction immediately. Say “No” once (or say nothing). Put your wallet and phone away (zipped pocket/bag), and keep your keys on you.
  2. Lock the car right now. If any door is unlocked, lock it. If a window is down, bring it up. If you’re unsure, assume the passenger side is the easiest “grab” opportunity.
  3. Create space and keep sightlines. Step back so you can see both sides of the car. Keep your hands free. Don’t get pinned between the pump and your vehicle.
  4. Move to a safer anchor point.
    • If the store is open: go inside and stand near the counter. Tell staff plainly: “Someone is trying to distract me at pump X—can you keep an eye out and help if needed?”
    • Or get into your driver’s seat, lock the doors, and keep windows up.
  5. Leave if you safely can. If you’re finished, drive away. If you’re mid-fill and you can safely stop, return the nozzle to the pump cradle first (never drive off with it attached), secure your fuel cap, then get in, lock, and leave.
  6. Escalate based on risk.
    • Call 911 if you feel in immediate danger, you’re being blocked from leaving, threats are being made, or a theft is happening now.
    • If you’re safe but want to report suspicious behaviour/attempted theft, call the local police non-emergency number (or ask the station staff for the best number to use).
  7. If anything was taken or exposed, lock it down quickly. Once you’re safe, freeze cards in your banking app (or call the number on the back of the card). If your phone is missing, use your phone’s “find/lock” features from another device, and secure key accounts (especially email and banking). If identity information was used to open accounts, use IdentityTheft.gov for a recovery plan.

What can wait

  • Deciding whether it was “really” an attempted theft—your priority is safety first.
  • Writing a perfect timeline (just note the location, pump number, time, and a description when calmer).
  • Replacing every card immediately (freeze first; replacement can follow).
  • Credit freezes/fraud alerts (important if identity info was used, but you don’t have to do it in the first minutes).

Important reassurance

Distraction attempts work because they split attention and create urgency—not because you “fell for it.” The safest “win” is ending the interaction, reducing access, and getting to staff or into your locked car.

Scope note

These are first steps for the moment at the pump. If there was a theft, threat, or you feel targeted, the next steps usually involve law enforcement and your bank/card issuers.

Important note

This is general safety information, not legal advice. If you believe you’re in immediate danger, call 911.

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