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What to do if…
someone claiming to be an officer asks you to meet them to “verify your identity” and you feel unsure

Short answer

Don’t meet them or share any personal details. End contact and verify through an independent, official channel (your local police department’s main number, or 911 if you feel in immediate danger).

Do not do these things

Don’t go to a meeting spot you didn’t confirm through the department’s official number.
Don’t call back the number they used or any number they provide (caller ID can be faked).
Don’t send photos of your driver’s license/passport, Social Security number, or a “selfie with ID”.
Don’t confirm details (address, date of birth, workplace) just because they already know some information.
Don’t comply with threats like “you’ll be arrested today” or “a warrant is active unless you verify now”.
Don’t pay anything (gift cards, wire, crypto, “bond”, “fine”) to “clear” the issue.

What to do now

Stop engaging. Say: “I’m going to verify this with the department directly.” Then hang up / stop replying.
Write down only safe identifiers. Ask (or note) their name, badge number, agency, and any case/reference number. Do not provide your own details.
Verify using a number you find yourself.
- For local officers: look up your city police / county sheriff official main number and ask dispatch whether the contact and any requested meeting are legitimate.
- If you feel in immediate danger, call 911.
If a meeting is actually needed, insist it’s arranged safely. Ask to meet at the police station (public lobby/front desk) during normal hours, with an appointment recorded by dispatch or the front desk—never a random address or a “quiet place”.
If someone comes to your home claiming to be law enforcement: keep the door closed, ask them to show credentials, and tell them you will call the department’s main number (or 911 if you feel unsafe) to confirm before opening.
If they claim to be federal (FBI, U.S. Marshals, etc.): don’t use their contact details. Find the agency’s official field office contact and confirm whether there’s a legitimate reason you’re being contacted.
If you shared information or suspect a scam, report it.
- Report to the FTC (ReportFraud).
- If it involved online contact, extortion, or identity misuse, report to IC3 as well.
- If money or banking details were involved, contact your bank/card issuer immediately.

What can wait

You don’t need to “prove” anything to a stranger in real time.
You don’t need to decide today whether to meet, answer questions, or provide documents.
You don’t need to argue your case on the phone—verification comes first.

Important reassurance

Impersonation scams are designed to feel urgent and authoritative. Taking a pause and verifying through official channels is normal and appropriate, even if the person sounds convincing.

Scope note

These are first steps to reduce risk and prevent irreversible mistakes. If it turns out to be legitimate, you can arrange a documented meeting at an official location and get support before providing information.

Important note

This is general information, not legal advice. If you feel threatened or unsafe, prioritize immediate safety and contact emergency services.

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What to do if…someone claiming to be an officer asks you to meet them to “verify your identity” and you feel unsure