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What to do if…
someone exposes themselves to you in person and you feel unsafe

Produced and maintained by PanicStation.org Published: Last reviewed: Editorial policy USA guide

Short answer

Move away from the person and toward a staffed, populated, or lockable place. Call 911 if you are in immediate danger or need immediate police or medical assistance.

Do not do these things

  • Do not confront, challenge, or approach the person.
  • Do not stay nearby to photograph or record them if that could put you at greater risk.
  • Do not follow them if they leave.
  • Do not move into an isolated area simply to avoid drawing attention.
  • Do not return alone for belongings while the person may still be nearby.
  • Do not blame yourself for freezing, staying quiet, or reacting differently than you expected.

What to do now

  1. Put distance and a barrier between you and the person if possible. Move toward other people, staff, security personnel, an open business, or a place where you can lock a door.
  2. Call 911 if you cannot get away safely, the person is preventing you from leaving, or you believe immediate police or medical help is needed. Give your location first and briefly describe what is happening.
  3. Tell a nearby staff member, transit employee, security officer, teacher, supervisor, or trusted person that someone exposed themselves and you feel unsafe. Ask them to stay with you or help you leave safely.
  4. Contact someone you trust. Tell them where you are and ask them to remain on the phone or meet you somewhere safer.
  5. If there was physical contact, an injury, or another form of sexual violence, seek medical attention or contact a sexual assault support service to discuss immediate care options.
  6. If you may want a record later and it is safe, write down the time, place, what happened, and a basic description without remaining at or returning to the scene.
  7. Contact RAINN or VictimConnect for confidential support, information, and referrals. You can ask about your options without first making a police report.

What can wait

You do not need to decide now what legal label applies, whether to make a formal report, or what you want to happen next. Remembering every detail, explaining your reaction, contacting the person, and warning others publicly can also wait until you are safer and have support.

Important reassurance

What happened was not your fault. Freezing, going quiet, feeling numb, shaking, or reacting later can occur during or after a frightening incident. Your immediate task is to get safer, not to respond perfectly.

Scope note

This guide covers immediate safety and support only. Later decisions about reporting, medical care, workplace or school procedures, or other specialist help may depend on what happened and where it occurred.

Important note

This is general safety information, not legal, medical, therapeutic, or other professional advice. Laws and reporting processes vary by state and locality. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

Additional Resources

Closely connected guides that may be useful during the same situation or its immediate aftermath.

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