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What to do if…
someone is repeatedly sliding notes or objects under your door and you feel targeted

Short answer

Stay behind your locked door and start documenting every incident. If you believe you need immediate help from police, fire, or medical services, call 911; otherwise contact your local police department’s non-emergency line to report the pattern.

Do not do these things

  • Do not open the door to confront them or try to “catch” them.
  • Do not step into the hallway/stairwell to search for the person.
  • Do not respond to the notes or leave messages back.
  • Do not throw items away or wipe the area before you document it.
  • Do not share details publicly in a way that could escalate (including building group chats).
  • Do not downplay it just because each individual incident seems “small”—the repetition is important.

What to do now

  1. Get to a safer pause and secure your space. Lock your door; if you have a chain or secondary lock, use it. Move away from the doorway while you decide what to do next.
  2. If you feel unsafe right now, call 911. Use 911 for emergencies (for example, someone is outside your door, trying the handle, threatening you, or you fear immediate harm).
  3. Document each incident immediately. Take photos of what was left and where it was found, then write down: date, time, what was left, and anything you heard/saw (footsteps, knocks, voices).
  4. Save the items together. Put the notes/objects in a clean envelope or bag, label it with date/time found, and store it somewhere safe. Keep a single folder (paper or digital) for everything.
  5. Contact your building management/landlord promptly (in writing if you can). Ask them to:
    • create an incident report for your unit
    • check who has access to the building/floor
    • preserve security camera footage for the relevant times (footage may be overwritten on a short cycle)
    • tell you what immediate steps they can take (lighting fixes, entry-door repairs, access control)
  6. Report the pattern to local law enforcement (non-emergency). Call your police department’s non-emergency number (or file an online report if your city offers it). If you don’t know it, search “[your city/county] police non-emergency” or check your city/police website. Ask for a case/incident number and tell them you have dated photos and saved items.
  7. Create a quick safety check-in plan for today. Tell one trusted person what’s happening and arrange a check-in time. If you need to leave your apartment, consider asking a neighbor/friend to walk with you to/from the door.
  8. Reduce opportunity without escalating. Practical, low-conflict steps: ensure hallway lights work, ask management to fix broken entry doors, and consider a door sweep/brush strip if there’s a large gap under the door (only if allowed by your lease/building rules and it does not create a safety hazard).

What can wait

  • You do not have to identify the person or figure out their motive right now.
  • You do not need to confront neighbors or run your own investigation.
  • You do not need to make major life decisions today (moving, changing routines drastically, etc.).
  • Longer legal steps (like protective/restraining orders) can wait until you have an incident number and you’ve talked to local law enforcement or an advocate about your options in your state.

Important reassurance

It’s reasonable to feel rattled when something keeps happening at your own door. Taking early, calm steps—documenting, reporting, and getting building management involved—helps you regain control without escalating the situation.

Scope note

This is first-steps-only guidance to stabilise the situation and reduce harm. If the behavior continues or escalates, you may need more tailored guidance from local law enforcement, your housing provider, or a victim advocate.

Important note

This guide is general information, not legal advice. If you believe you are in immediate danger or need immediate help, call 911. Definitions and processes vary by state and city; local law enforcement or a victim advocate can explain your options based on where you live.

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