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What to do if…
someone tries to follow you into an elevator and you do not feel safe letting them in

Short answer

Don’t ride the elevator with them. Step away, let the doors close, and move to a public/staffed area (front desk, security, busy lobby, or outside).

Do not do these things

Don’t get on the elevator just to avoid being “rude.”
Don’t argue, threaten, or physically block the doorway with your body.
Don’t reveal your apartment floor/unit by pulling out keys or access cards if you’re not sure you’re safe.
Don’t go to a quiet floor or isolated hallway to “get away.”
Don’t stay frozen in the elevator threshold—commit to stepping away and moving to people.

What to do now

Choose separation over speed. Stay out of the elevator car. Step back so you’re clearly not boarding and let the doors close.
Move away from isolation. Leave the lobby/hallway and go to a front desk/leasing office/security desk if available. If not, move toward the building entrance, a busier area, or outside where others can see you.
Use a quick “environment check” before the next elevator. If there’s a mirror in/near the elevator, use it to look inside before you enter. If you can, wait for the next car and ride when other people are present.
Use your phone to reduce isolation. Call someone (or pretend to) and say your location out loud (“I’m in the lobby by the elevators at [address/building]”). Keep moving toward staff or other people.
If you feel threatened right now, call 911. Give the exact location (address, lobby/elevator bank) and a simple description of what the person is doing. If you can’t safely speak and text-to-911 is available in your area, text 911 with your location and what’s happening (calling is still best when you can).
If you end up in the elevator with them, get back to people fast. Exit at the next busy floor or return to the lobby rather than going to your home floor. If there’s an elevator emergency call button/intercom, use it to reach building monitoring/security—then still call 911 if you feel in danger.
After you’re safe, document and report. Write down the time, location, and a brief description while it’s fresh. Report it to building management/security so they can review access/CCTV and address tailgating. If you want to involve police after the immediate moment, use your local department’s non-emergency number.

What can wait

You don’t have to decide immediately whether to file a police report once you’re safe.
You don’t need to “figure out their intentions” before you step away.
You don’t need to confront them or explain yourself—getting to safety is enough.

Important reassurance

A safety choice that feels “awkward” is still a good choice. Many people freeze or second-guess themselves in moments like this; taking a simple step away and moving to a public place is reasonable.

Scope note

This guide covers the first few minutes: creating distance, getting to people, and involving the right support. Later steps (like a formal report or building policy changes) can happen once you’re calm and safe.

Important note

This is general information, not professional advice. If you believe you’re in immediate danger, call 911. If something feels off, trust that feeling and choose the option that gets you out of being alone with the person.

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What to do if…someone tries to follow you into an elevator and you do not feel safe letting them in