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What to do if…
you are contacted by a detention facility claiming someone listed you as their emergency contact

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Short answer

End the call. Find the facility’s official public number on a government website and call it yourself before sharing information, travelling, or sending money.

Do not do these things

  • Do not send money, payment details, gift-card numbers, cryptocurrency, or banking information because of an incoming call.
  • Do not rely on caller ID, a callback number, a badge number, or a case number as proof.
  • Do not share your Social Security number, home address, account details, or copies of identity documents with an unexpected caller.
  • Do not click links, open attachments, or use contact details sent by the caller.
  • Do not rush to a jail, courthouse, or meeting point before verifying the call independently.
  • Do not keep the call secret because the caller told you to.

What to do now

  1. End the call and make a brief note of what was said.
    Write down the claimed facility name, city or county, the person’s name, the caller’s name, and what the caller asked you to do.

  2. Find the facility’s official public number yourself.
    Use a relevant county, city, sheriff, state Department of Corrections, or other government website. Do not call back the number that contacted you or a number sent in a message.

  3. Call the official number and ask whether the contact was genuine.
    Ask whether staff can confirm that someone listed your number as an emergency contact and whether anything is actually needed from you. Staff may limit what they disclose. If needed, ask whether they can pass a message through an approved channel.

  4. If you do not recognise the person, say so.
    Ask staff to record that you do not know the person and explain the facility’s process for requesting that your number be removed or corrected.

  5. Treat money demands, threats, secrecy, or urgency as warning signs of a possible impersonation scam.
    Do not continue the conversation. Verify independently through the official public number. Report a suspected scam to the FTC. If the incident involved an app, email, website, cryptocurrency, or another online element, you can also report it to IC3.

  6. If you already paid or shared information, act promptly.
    Contact the bank, card issuer, gift-card issuer, transfer company, or payment-app provider using its official contact route. Say that the transaction may be fraudulent and ask what can be reversed or limited. If you shared personal identifying information, use IdentityTheft.gov for recovery steps.

  7. Call 911 if anyone is in immediate danger.

  8. If the call is real and you know the person, keep your role narrow at first.
    Ask the verified facility contact what, if anything, is needed now. Check any claimed payment or property process against the facility’s official published information before acting.

What can wait

  • You do not need to decide now whether to pay for anything, hire anyone, travel, or take on long-term responsibilities.
  • You do not need to hand over personal documents while you are still checking whether the call is genuine.
  • You do not need to contact employers, schools, or extended family before you know what is real.

Important reassurance

An unexpected detention-facility call can feel urgent. Pausing, ending the call, and verifying through an official public number is a sensible first step.

Scope note

These are first steps to check whether the contact is genuine, reduce the risk of a scam, and avoid accidental disclosure. Later decisions may depend on the facility, the state, and the detained person’s wishes, and may need specialist help.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, medical, financial, therapeutic, or other professional advice. Facility procedures and what staff can disclose vary. Call 911 if anyone is in immediate danger.

Additional Resources

Closely connected guides that may be useful during the same situation or its immediate aftermath.

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