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What to do if…
you become separated from your child at an airport or border

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Short answer

Tell the nearest uniformed staff member immediately and ask them to summon airport or port-of-entry law enforcement. Call 911 if staff cannot summon an officer promptly or you believe your child is in danger, and provide a recent photo, description, and exact last-seen place and time.

Do not do these things

  • Do not spend time searching alone before reporting your child missing.
  • Do not leave the airport or border facility unless law enforcement directs you or you must move to safety.
  • Do not board a flight, shuttle, train, or other transport while your child’s location is unknown.
  • Do not enter restricted areas or force your way back through a security or inspection checkpoint.
  • Do not have everyone in your group scatter without coordinating with law enforcement.
  • Do not delay because of a flight, baggage, travel documents, or immigration processing.
  • Do not post passport pages, boarding passes, home addresses, or other sensitive information publicly.
  • Do not confront someone you suspect may be involved; tell law enforcement where the person is and what they look like.

What to do now

  1. Go to the nearest safe, staffed point. At a vehicle border crossing, remain where officers direct you and do not step into moving traffic.

  2. Say clearly, “I am separated from my child.” At an airport, ask for airport police or the appropriate local law-enforcement agency. At a port of entry, tell the nearest U.S. Customs and Border Protection officer and ask for immediate law-enforcement assistance.

  3. If an officer is not being summoned promptly, or you believe your child is in immediate danger, call 911. Do not wait for a set amount of time before reporting a missing child.

  4. Give officers your child’s full name, age or date of birth, approximate height and weight, clothing, distinctive features, and any glasses, braces, mobility aids, or communication needs. Show them the most recent clear photo you have.

  5. State exactly when and where you last saw your child. Include the terminal, gate, checkpoint, inspection lane, restroom, baggage area, shuttle stop, parking area, or nearby landmark.

  6. Tell officers whether your child has a phone, travel documents, medication, or a known meeting place. Mention anyone who was with or near your child and the direction they may have gone.

  7. Stay at the location agreed with law enforcement, keep your phone switched on with the volume high, and keep the rest of your group together. Follow officers’ instructions rather than searching restricted areas yourself.

  8. If your child calls or messages, tell them to stay where they are or go to a uniformed law-enforcement, security, airline, airport, or CBP staff member. Ask them to describe signs, gate numbers, counters, or other nearby landmarks, then pass that information to officers.

  9. If another trusted adult is present, one adult can remain at the agreed meeting point while the other follows law-enforcement directions. Do not separate further without telling the officer coordinating the response.

  10. After reporting your child missing to law enforcement, call the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children at 1-800-843-5678 for additional assistance.

What can wait

Rebooking travel, collecting non-essential baggage, making complaints, assigning blame, seeking refunds, and resolving unrelated document questions can wait. Posting publicly can also wait until you have spoken with law enforcement or the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children about what information may help and what private details to withhold.

Important reassurance

You do not need to remember every detail before asking for help. Reporting the separation immediately and staying available to the officers coordinating the response are useful actions even when you have limited information.

Scope note

This guide covers only the first actions after becoming separated from your child. If the separation continues, later decisions may require help from law enforcement, the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, the airline, airport authorities, U.S. Customs and Border Protection, or a qualified legal or immigration professional.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, immigration, security, or other professional advice. If your child may be in immediate danger or law enforcement is not already responding, call 911 and follow the instructions of emergency services.

Additional Resources

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