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What to do if…
you feel unsafe walking to your car because someone is loitering along your path

Short answer

Don’t walk past them. Go back to a staffed, well-lit place and ask for an escort if available (or arrange a different ride). If you feel in immediate danger, call 911.

Do not do these things

  • Do not keep walking just to avoid attention or embarrassment.
  • Do not confront the person, argue, or try to figure out their intentions up close.
  • Do not take a quieter shortcut (between cars, stairwells, side exits) to avoid them.
  • Do not dig for keys while walking or stop to text in the open.
  • Do not unlock your car and then pause outside it.
  • Do not get into your car and sit there with doors unlocked while you “wait it out.”

What to do now

  1. Stop and change direction. Turn around and go back to the nearest public, staffed place: inside the store, lobby, front desk, security desk, or a busy entrance.
  2. Put people and visibility around you. Stand near staff (front counter/reception) or where other people pass through, rather than waiting alone outside.
  3. Ask for an escort if it’s available. Some places (campuses, hospitals, venues, large workplaces, parking operators) may be able to provide a staff/security walk-out. Say: “I don’t feel safe walking to my car. Can someone escort me to row/level X?”
    If they can’t, ask if you can wait inside while you arrange pickup.
  4. Arrange a safer alternative from inside. Call a friend/relative for pickup at the entrance, or request a rideshare/taxi from where you are rather than walking out alone.
  5. Call for help if it feels like a threat.
    • Call 911 if you believe you are in immediate danger, the person is approaching, you are being followed, or you’re being blocked from leaving.
      When you call, say your location first (address/business name, parking lot/garage section/level/entrance), then describe what’s happening and that you’re staying inside by staff.
    • If you are not in immediate danger but want help, contact site security/management (if you’re on private property) or your local police non-emergency number (varies by city/county).
  6. When you do reach the car, keep it simple: get in and go. Get in, lock doors immediately, start the engine, and leave. If you still feel followed, drive to a busy, well-lit place (like a gas station) and call 911 if you need urgent assistance.
  7. After you’re safe, report it to the property. Let the store/venue/workplace or parking operator know what happened (where/when). This can help them increase patrols or respond to repeat issues.

What can wait

  • You don’t have to decide right now whether the person is “actually dangerous.”
  • You don’t need to gather evidence, take photos, or confront them to justify leaving.
  • You don’t need to file a report on the spot if you’re shaken—prioritize safety and distance first.
  • You don’t need to keep your original plan (your plan can change without explanation).

Important reassurance

Your instincts are valid data. Stepping back into a staffed place and asking for help is a normal, reasonable response that reduces the chance of being isolated.

Scope note

This is first-steps-only guidance for safely getting to your car (or choosing a safer alternative) and avoiding common panic mistakes. Anything beyond that—like follow-up with the property or police—can be handled later.

Important note

This is general information, not legal advice or a substitute for emergency services. If you believe you are in immediate danger, call 911.

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