What to do if…
you notice someone photographing or filming you in a way that feels targeted
Short answer
Create distance and get to a safer, more public place (staffed area, business, near other people), then involve staff/security and call 911 if you feel threatened or followed.
Do not do these things
- Don’t confront them alone or try to physically stop the recording.
- Don’t grab their phone/camera or block them with physical contact.
- Don’t follow them to get proof if it puts you more isolated.
- Don’t get into a shouting match about “rights” in the moment.
- Don’t go straight home or to your car if they might follow you.
- Don’t post them online while you’re still in the situation; if you capture anything, keep it for staff/security/law enforcement if needed.
What to do now
- Move to safety first (distance + people). Step into a nearby business, lobby, or staffed public area. If you can’t go inside, stand near a group, a well-lit entrance, or where employees are visible.
- Pull in a third party immediately. Tell staff/security:
“That person appears to be filming me and it feels targeted. Can you stay with me and help me leave safely?”
Ask for an escort to a different exit, a safer waiting area, or to meet your ride. - If you feel threatened, followed, or trapped, call 911. Describe: location, what the person is doing, what direction they’re moving, and whether you’re alone. If it’s not urgent but still concerning, use the local police non-emergency number (many departments also have online reporting).
- If you suspect “privacy-invasive” recording, treat it as urgent. If it looks like they’re trying to film under clothing, into restrooms/changing rooms, or in any place where you reasonably expect privacy — or if a child seems targeted — get staff/security immediately and call 911.
- Use venue systems (and ask for specifics). On campus, in a mall, hospital, stadium, or transit facility, ask for on-site security/campus police/transit police. If the person is on private property, staff may be able to tell them to stop or leave; ask staff what they can do and stay with employees while it happens.
- Document details while staying at a safe distance. As soon as you can, note: time, exact location, description, what device they used, what they said/did, and any vehicle/plate. If it’s safe, record your own short video from a distance as a reference.
- Ask the venue to retain video and make a record. Request that staff note the time and save CCTV as soon as possible (footage may be overwritten). If there’s an incident reporting system, ask for the incident number or a brief written note that you reported it.
- If this feels like part of a pattern, name it as a stalking/harassment concern. Save messages, repeated sightings, and dates/times. When you report, say clearly: “I’m worried about stalking/harassment,” and share the pattern (not just today’s incident).
What can wait
- You don’t need to determine on the spot whether recording is legal where you are; laws and property rules vary.
- You don’t need to demand deletion right now (that can escalate and isn’t always enforceable in the moment).
- You don’t need to write a full statement before calling for help — basic facts are enough.
- You don’t need to decide today whether to pursue any longer-term legal steps.
Important reassurance
Feeling alarmed by targeted filming is understandable. In many places, recording what’s plainly visible in public is allowed, and private venues can have their own rules — but you still get to leave, create distance, and ask for help when the situation feels targeted or intimidating. If the behaviour is repeated or paired with following, threats, or interference, it may be a harassment or stalking concern.
Scope note
These are first steps only. If the behaviour continues, repeats, or is connected to someone you know, you may need more specialized support (law enforcement and/or a victim advocate) to plan next actions safely.
Important note
This is general information, not legal advice. If you’re in immediate danger, call 911. If it’s not an emergency but you’re concerned, contact local law enforcement and consider speaking with a victim support organization for safety planning.
Additional Resources
- https://www.usa.gov/report-crime
- https://ovc.ojp.gov/topics/stalking
- https://rainn.org/strategies-to-reduce-risk-increase-safety/safety-planning-for-survivors-of-assault-harassment-stalking/
- https://www.acludc.org/know-your-rights/if-stopped-photographing-public/
- https://dcvictim.org/learn/types-of-crime/stalking/
- https://www.thehotline.org/resources/stalking-safety-planning/