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us Sexual violence & highly sensitive situations someone collecting my photos • my photos being saved online • sexual comments about me online • being sexualised across platforms • strangers posting about me sexually • someone making explicit remarks about me • my pictures shared without consent • my photos reposted by someone • creepy comments under my photos • being targeted on multiple apps • online harassment sexual comments • cyberstalking with my photos • someone compiling my pictures • worried someone is obsessing over me • fake accounts using my photos • sextortion fear • nonconsensual intimate images concern • image-based sexual abuse • deepfake sexual comments about me

What to do if…
you realise someone is collecting your photos and making sexual comments about you across platforms

Short answer

Make it safer and more actionable: stop engaging, preserve evidence, tighten account privacy, and report the accounts/posts inside each platform. If you feel in danger or they’re escalating (threats, doxxing, trying to find you offline), call 911.

Do not do these things

  • Do not reply, argue, or try to “reason” with them (it can escalate and give them attention).
  • Do not post public call-outs with their handle or screenshots (it can spread copies and invite pile-ons).
  • Do not delete everything right away if you might want platforms or law enforcement to act (preserve first).
  • Do not accept “proof” requests (e.g., “send more pics to show it’s you”)—that’s often a manipulation tactic.
  • Do not pay or comply with demands if this turns into sextortion/blackmail.

What to do now

  1. Get support in the room (or on the phone) before you do anything else.
    Tell one trusted person what’s happening and ask them to stay with you while you document/report. If you feel at immediate risk, call 911.

  2. Preserve evidence in a calm, minimal way (keep it private).
    Create one private folder (not a shared album) and capture:

    • screenshots (or short screen recordings) of posts/comments/messages
    • profile links/usernames, platform names
    • direct links/URLs where possible
    • timestamps and any signs of escalation (threats, “I know where you live/work,” repeated new accounts)

  3. Rapid privacy hardening across your accounts (10-minute version).

    • set accounts to private where possible
    • restrict who can comment/DM/tag you; filter sexual keywords if available
    • remove location/routine info (school/workplace, check-ins, usual hangouts)
    • review old posts for identifiable routine landmarks and archive the highest-risk ones

  4. Report and block on each platform (repeat across platforms).

    • report the specific comments/posts for harassment/sexual harassment
    • report the account(s)
    • block after reporting
    • if they’re using your photos, report as impersonation or non-consensual image use (wording varies)

  5. If this involves intimate images (or threats), use specialist help right away.
    Contact the Cyber Civil Rights Initiative (CCRI) Image Abuse Helpline for free, 24/7 support and guidance for image-based sexual abuse, including sextortion and nonconsensual intimate imagery.

  6. If you’re under 18 (or any sexual content involves a minor): report as child exploitation.
    Report to NCMEC’s CyberTipline. If you’re in immediate danger, call 911.

  7. Consider reporting to law enforcement when there’s threat, stalking, extortion, or identification attempts (use official sites).

    • If there are threats, stalking behavior, doxxing, or attempts to contact you offline, contact local police.
    • If it’s part of a broader online crime pattern (especially extortion), you can also file a report with the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3).
      To reduce the risk of lookalike scam sites, type the official address directly (for example ic3.gov / complaint.ic3.gov). Don’t pay anyone to “file” a report for you.

  8. Get confidential emotional support that doesn’t require “reporting.”
    If you feel overwhelmed, panicky, or unsafe, you can contact RAINN for confidential support and options. You do not have to decide “what this is” or what you’ll do long-term right now.

What can wait

  • You do not need to decide today whether to pursue charges, hire a lawyer, or “make a public statement.”
  • You do not need to overhaul every account perfectly—focus first on private settings, comment/DM controls, and removing location/routine details.
  • You do not need to keep monitoring feeds nonstop; preserve/report, then step away with support.

Important reassurance

Being targeted this way can feel violating and destabilizing—even if no physical contact occurred. Your reactions (shock, shame, anger, fear) are common, and none of this means you “caused” it. The safest early moves are containment and support, not confrontation.

Scope note

This is first-steps-only guidance to stabilise and reduce harm. Follow-on steps (ongoing safety planning, workplace/school support, legal options) can be handled later with specialist help.

Important note

This is general information, not legal or clinical advice. If you feel unsafe or there are threats or escalation, prioritize immediate safety and contact emergency services.

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