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What to do if…
you receive a legal threat from a former employer about contacting clients or colleagues

Short answer

Pause any outreach that could look like client solicitation or coworker recruiting, preserve everything, and get state-specific legal advice before you respond.

Do not do these things

  • Do not reply with a detailed explanation, apology, or admissions.
  • Do not ignore it if it threatens a temporary restraining order (TRO), injunction, or has a short deadline.
  • Do not contact clients or colleagues to “straighten it out” or ask what they told your former employer.
  • Do not delete texts, DMs, emails, call logs, or files (including anything on your phone or laptop).
  • Do not keep using any customer lists, pricing, templates, CRM exports, or documents from your former employer.
  • Do not vent about the dispute on social media or in industry/community groups.

What to do now

  1. Freeze the risky conduct. Until you understand your contract and your state’s rules, pause proactive, business-related contact with former clients/customers and any messages to former coworkers about joining you, switching vendors, moving accounts, or hiring.
  2. Preserve the threat letter and your proof. Save the envelope/email headers and attachments. Screenshot relevant messages. Write a basic timeline: who contacted whom first, when, and what was said.
  3. Pull the agreements that matter. Find:
    • offer letter + any noncompete/non-solicit/non-disclosure agreement
    • severance or separation agreement
    • any bonus/commission “repayment” agreement tied to leaving
    • any written policy you signed that’s referenced in the threat
  4. Separate “people contact” issues from “information” issues. Threats often bundle:
    • non-solicitation / non-interference (clients or coworkers)
    • confidentiality / trade secrets (files, lists, pricing, internal docs)
      If any company material is on your devices or cloud accounts, stop using it and isolate it (do not forward it; do not delete it).
  5. Check for legal help you already have. Look for legal expense coverage via insurance or an employee benefit. If the letter was sent to or copied to your new employer, keep any internal communication minimal and factual — and, when possible, do it after you’ve spoken to counsel.
  6. Get state-specific counsel quickly. Enforcement varies a lot by state and by wording. Use a state/local bar association lawyer-referral service or an employment attorney who regularly handles restrictive covenants.
  7. If the threat is trying to stop you and coworkers discussing workplace conditions, note there may be legal protections. In many private-sector workplaces, federal labor law protects certain group discussions about wages and working conditions. Coverage is not universal (for example, many supervisors/managers, independent contractors, and some public-sector workers are treated differently). If you think the letter is targeting that kind of protected activity, consider contacting the National Labor Relations Board (NLRB) for guidance.
  8. If you must respond before you have a lawyer, send a holding reply only. Confirm receipt, say you’re seeking counsel, and ask them to identify the specific clauses and specific alleged contacts (names/dates). Do not provide your narrative or documents yet.

What can wait

  • You do not need to decide today whether to change jobs, rebrand, relocate, or shut down your business plans.
  • You do not need to sign an “undertaking” or settlement terms without legal review.
  • You do not need to “prove you’re right” to clients or coworkers right now.
  • You do not need to argue enforceability until you’ve mapped your state law and your facts.

Important reassurance

A threatening letter can feel like an emergency, but your safest first move is to slow down and avoid creating new facts (new outreach, deleted evidence, or accidental admissions). Preserving records and getting local legal advice puts you back in control.

Scope note

These are first steps only. The enforceability of noncompete and non-solicit terms is highly state- and fact-specific, and the best response depends on the exact language and what you actually did.

Important note

This guide is general information, not legal advice. If the letter mentions a TRO/injunction or a near deadline, treat it as urgent and consult a qualified attorney in your state.

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