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What to do if…
you receive a message claiming they have webcam recordings of you and you are unsure if it is real

Short answer

Do not respond or pay. Save a minimal record, secure your email and key accounts, then report it through official U.S. cybercrime/fraud channels.

Do not do these things

  • Do not pay, bargain, or keep chatting to “buy time” (it often escalates demands).
  • Do not send more images/videos or get on a video call to “clear it up”.
  • Do not click their links, open attachments, or install anything they send as “proof”.
  • Do not erase everything immediately before saving a basic screenshot record.
  • Do not give personal or banking details to anyone claiming they can “recover” your money or “fix” the situation without you seeking them out first.

What to do now

  1. Create a safer pause (2 minutes). Put the message aside and take slow breaths. These threats are designed to trigger panic and fast payment.
  2. Stop contact. Don’t reply. Block the sender. On the platform/app, report the account/message as extortion/harassment.
  3. Save a minimal record. Take screenshots of:
    • the message(s),
    • the sender’s account details,
    • any payment instructions (crypto wallet, handles),
    • any threats to contact your friends/followers. Store it somewhere safe. Then stop looking at it.
  4. If they included a password or other “proof,” treat it as a security incident.
    • Change that password anywhere it’s reused.
    • Change your email password first (email unlocks password resets).
  5. Lock down key accounts (keep it simple).
    • Turn on two-factor authentication (2FA) for email and major social accounts (an authenticator app is often stronger than SMS).
    • Save recovery codes somewhere safe.
    • Review recovery options and remove anything you don’t recognize.
    • If you’re worried about them messaging your contacts, tighten social settings temporarily: limit who can message/tag/comment, hide your friends/followers list where possible, and review any contact/address-book syncing.
  6. Do quick device hygiene (after email + 2FA).
    • Update your operating system and browser.
    • Check camera/microphone permissions and remove access for apps you don’t recognize.
    • Run a reputable security scan if you have one.
    • Cover your webcam or close the device if it helps you feel safer right now.
  7. Report it using official sites (watch for lookalikes).
    • If you feel in immediate danger or someone is actively coercing you right now: call 911.
    • File a report with the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3).
    • Report the scam to the FTC at ReportFraud.
    • Use official “.gov” domains and type them yourself — don’t follow links in the threat message or from random DMs/emails.
  8. If you are under 18, or the victim is under 18: report to NCMEC CyberTipline (the U.S. centralized reporting system for suspected child exploitation, including sextortion).
  9. If images/videos actually exist or get posted: shift to “containment + support.”
    • Report the content to the platform where it appears using their intimate-image/harassment reporting path.
    • Consider contacting local law enforcement with your saved screenshots + account/payment details.

What can wait

  • You don’t need to decide right now whether to tell friends/family/employer.
  • You don’t need to figure out “how they did it” tonight.
  • You don’t need to delete all your accounts or wipe your phone immediately — start with email, passwords, and 2FA.
  • You don’t need to keep reading their threats to stay safe.

Important reassurance

This kind of message is designed to trigger shame and urgency. Feeling frozen, nauseous, or panicked is a normal reaction. The safest first moves are straightforward: stop contact, don’t pay, save a basic record, secure accounts, report.

Scope note

This is first steps only to help you stabilise and avoid irreversible actions. If the threat escalates, money was sent, or content is shared, getting additional help from official reporting channels is appropriate.

Important note

This guide provides general information and immediate safety steps, not legal advice or professional counselling. If you feel unsafe or overwhelmed, calling emergency services or using official reporting/support channels is a valid next step.

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