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What to do if…
you receive a message that includes a photo of you taken recently and you do not know who sent it

Short answer

Assume this could be harassment, stalking, or an extortion attempt: don’t engage, save the message/photo, and move yourself into a safer situation. If you feel in danger right now, call 911.

Do not do these things

  • Do not reply or “bait” them to get more info (it can escalate and confirms your account is active).
  • Do not click links, open attachments, or install anything they send.
  • Do not pay money, send gift cards, or send more photos (it rarely stops contact and often increases demands).
  • Do not post the photo publicly or try to identify them online.
  • Do not delete the conversation until you’ve saved what you need.

What to do now

  1. Check immediate safety first.
    If the photo suggests they’re near you (outside home/work, taken minutes ago), or you feel threatened: go to a more public/safer place, lock doors, and call 911. If it’s not an emergency, contact your local police non-emergency line to report suspicious harassment/stalking behavior.

  2. Stop contact with the sender.
    Don’t respond. If you need a moment to save evidence, mute the chat and disable read receipts (if available). After saving evidence (next step), block the account/number.

  3. Preserve evidence in a simple, usable way.

    • Screenshot the full thread (sender profile/number, photo, message text, timestamps).
    • Save the photo as received (don’t crop/edit).
    • Write down: date/time received, platform, and what the photo reveals (location clues, your vehicle/license plate visible, workplace signage, etc.).
    • If the platform allows it, download account data or export the conversation.

  4. Report it on the platform immediately (then block).
    Use the in-app reporting tools (harassment, stalking, impersonation, extortion/blackmail). If there are threats, say so clearly in the report.

  5. If there are threats or demands (especially money/gift cards), report it as cyber-enabled crime.

    • For internet-based fraud/extortion, file a complaint with the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3).
    • If you believe you’re at immediate risk of harm, report to 911/local police first (IC3 is not an emergency service).

  6. Do a fast “exposure” check to reduce repeat contact today.

    • Turn off location sharing on social apps (maps, live location, story location tags).
    • Review who can view your stories/posts; remove anything that reveals routines.
    • Change passwords for your email and the account the message arrived on, and enable multi-factor authentication where available.
    • If the account offers it, sign out of other sessions / review recent logins.

  7. Tell one trusted person and set a short check-in plan.
    Share the screenshots and your plan for the next few hours. If you need to go out, vary routes and avoid being alone.

  8. If this involves a workplace, campus, or building access, loop in onsite security.
    Provide the screenshots and ask them to preserve any relevant camera footage if the photo might have been taken onsite.

What can wait

  • You do not need to identify the sender right now.
  • You do not need to delete accounts, change your number, or make major life changes today.
  • You do not need to keep chatting to “collect evidence.”
  • You do not need to decide right now whether to pursue charges—focus on safety and preserving information.

Important reassurance

This is a very unsettling kind of message to receive, and your alarm is reasonable. Many senders rely on shock to make you react quickly or comply. A calm response—no engagement, preserve proof, and report through the right channels—protects you and keeps options open.

Scope note

These are first steps to reduce risk and preserve your options. If contact continues, escalates, or you suspect in-person stalking, local law enforcement can advise on next steps specific to your situation.

Important note

This is general information, not legal advice. If you feel in immediate danger, call 911. If you’re not in immediate danger but feel threatened, contact your local police department and use platform reporting and IC3 as appropriate.

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