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What to do if…
you receive an official request to update your address urgently and you are unsure what happens if you do not

Short answer

Verify first using an official, independent channel (agency website / known phone number), then update your address through the official process that applies to you — without clicking links or paying third parties.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t click links, scan QR codes, or call numbers printed in the message until you verify the agency from a trusted source.
  • Don’t pay “address change” companies or subscription sites — many are unnecessary and some are scams.
  • Don’t send a full set of identity documents unless an official channel confirms exactly what’s required.
  • Don’t ignore anything that might be court-related or supervision-related (probation/parole/supervised release) — missed mail can create serious knock-on problems.
  • Don’t “fix it later” by guessing; your safest first move is verification.

What to do now

  1. Capture the essentials (without responding yet): sender, reference/case number, what they want (address update vs. identity verification), and any stated deadline.
  2. Work out what type of “official” this is likely to be:
    • Mail forwarding / “moving” → could be USPS-related.
    • Driver license / vehicle registration → likely your state DMV.
    • Immigration → USCIS address reporting.
    • Court / legal → a court clerk or a government office.
    • Probation/parole/supervised release → your supervising officer/office.
  3. Verify using an independent route (not the message):
    • For moving and mail forwarding, use the official USPS Change-of-Address information.
    • For general “how to change address” guidance, use USA.gov’s change-of-address page (and follow it to USPS).
    • For immigration address changes, use USCIS’s official “How to Change Your Address” / AR-11 information.
    • For probation/supervised release, contact your supervising office directly using official contact details you already have. If it’s federal supervision, the U.S. Courts resources describe standard notification expectations; if it’s state/local supervision, use your state/local supervising agency’s official contact route.
  4. If verified, update your address through the correct official process:
    • USPS: submit an official change of address (online or at a post office). Online you may be asked to pay a small identity verification fee (the amount can change); in-person at a post office is free.
    • DMV: update per your state’s rules (timelines and methods vary by state).
    • USCIS (if you’re required to report): file the official address change (AR-11 / online change-of-address process).
  5. If you’re under any supervision condition (probation/parole/supervised release):
    • Treat this as time-sensitive: notify your officer promptly and ask what they need documented (new lease, utility bill, etc.) and whether you need advance approval before a move.
  6. If you can’t verify quickly, assume scam risk and contain it:
    • Do not respond through the original channel.
    • If you already clicked a link or provided information, stop and switch to official channels to secure accounts and document what happened.
  7. Create a “no surprises” buffer for the next few weeks:
    • Check your mailbox and any official online accounts you already have (state DMV portal, USCIS account if applicable) directly — not via links in messages.
    • If you recently moved, consider a short list to update: USPS forwarding, DMV, voter registration (state/local), and any agency that currently has an active case with you.

What can wait

  • You do not need to solve every downstream consequence today.
  • You do not need to provide extra documents until an official channel confirms what’s acceptable.
  • You do not need to make big decisions about legal strategy right now — first verify and stop missed communications.

Important reassurance

Urgent, official-sounding requests are designed to trigger panic — scammers rely on that, and real systems can also sound harsh even when the fix is straightforward. Taking a few minutes to verify through a trusted route is the safest way to protect yourself.

Scope note

These are immediate stabilisation steps to prevent the biggest early harms (scams, missed court/supervision contact, and missed mail). If the request relates to an active legal matter or immigration status, you may need qualified help after you’ve confirmed who is contacting you and what deadline applies.

Important note

This is general information, not legal advice. Requirements and timelines vary by agency and state. If there’s any chance the notice is court-related or supervision-related, verify the sender promptly via official channels and ask what deadline applies to you.

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