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What to do if…
you spot someone signalling to another person while watching you handle cash or valuables

Short answer

Stop handling the cash/valuables, secure them, and move to a staffed, well-lit place (store counter, bank lobby, security desk) immediately. If you believe a robbery/theft is imminent or in progress, call 911.

Do not do these things

  • Don’t keep counting money, flashing valuables, or trying to “finish fast” while you feel targeted.
  • Don’t challenge them, follow them, or try to physically block them.
  • Don’t step into a quieter area to “get space” (empty aisles, stairwells, parking-lot corners).
  • Don’t start filming if it keeps you in place or distracts you from moving to safety.
  • Don’t unlock your car and reorganize your wallet/bag at the car door.
  • Don’t accept “help” that requires you to hand over your phone, wallet, or bag.

What to do now

  1. Secure what you’re holding immediately. Put cash away, close your wallet, zip your bag, and keep it in front of you. If you’re at an ATM, end/cancel promptly and put card and cash away before you turn or step away.
  2. Move to a staffed “anchor point” right away. Go inside a nearby open business, to the customer service desk, bank lobby, front checkout, or a visible security area. If you’re already in a store, go straight to an employee and stay near them.
  3. Use one simple sentence to recruit help. Tell staff: “I think someone is watching me and signaling to another person while I handle cash. Can I stay here, and can you call security?” Let them take the lead while you stay close to people and cameras.
  4. Increase distance and keep your exit options. Stand with your back near a wall/counter, keep an arm’s-length buffer, and avoid letting anyone get behind you.
  5. If you think you’re being followed, don’t lead them to isolation. Stay inside the staffed place or move to another busy, well-lit location. Avoid shortcuts, alleys, and going straight to your car if you’re alone.
  6. Call the right number based on urgency.
    • Call 911 if a robbery/theft seems about to happen, someone is threatening you, you’re being blocked from leaving, or a crime is in progress.
    • If the suspicious people have left and you’re safe, call the local police non-emergency number (or ask staff/security to call) to report what happened and help preserve security video/camera footage.
  7. Capture details only once you’re safe. Write down (or quietly note) clothing, height/build, distinguishing features, direction of travel, and a vehicle description/plate if you can do so without returning to danger.
  8. If anything might have been taken, check and freeze fast. While you’re in the safe place, check wallet/phone/keys. If a card is missing, use your banking app or call your bank/card issuer using an official number to freeze/cancel.

What can wait

  • You do not need to prove they were coordinating before you move to safety.
  • You do not need to confront anyone or “test” whether they’re suspicious.
  • You do not need to post about it, warn others online, or review footage yourself right now.
  • You do not need to decide whether to formally report; first, get stable and safe.

Important reassurance

Criminals can work in pairs, with one person distracting or watching while another moves in. Picking up on signaling and acting early by moving to staff and securing valuables is a sensible, low-risk response.

Scope note

This is first-steps-only guidance for the next few minutes. If you were threatened, followed, or anything was stolen, you may want additional support and follow-up once you’re safe.

Important note

This is general information, not legal or professional safety advice. If you feel in immediate danger or a crime is happening, prioritize getting to a safer place and calling 911.

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