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What to do if…
you suspect someone is targeting you at a playground or park by repeatedly approaching your family

Short answer

Get your family moving to a safer, busier place and leave the area if you can. If you feel in immediate danger or the person won’t stop, call 911.

Do not do these things

  • Do not stay to “be polite” if the interaction feels wrong.
  • Do not let children wander while you assess the situation.
  • Do not confront the person alone, argue, or try to physically block them.
  • Do not share identifying details (kids’ names, school, where you live, your routine).
  • Do not post your location in real time.
  • Do not assume you must be certain before calling for help.

What to do now

  1. Create space immediately. Bring children close, collect your things, and move toward a busier/visible area (entrance, parking lot near other people, park office, concessions, ranger station, a group of parents). If you can, leave the park and go somewhere staffed (store, café, library).
  2. Keep kids “inside your body line.” Put yourself between the person and your children. Hold hands or use a firm “stand right next to me” instruction. If you drove, get keys ready so you’re not searching for them at the car.
  3. Use one clear boundary sentence. Calmly: “Stop approaching us. Do not speak to my children.” Then disengage and keep moving. Your goal is a clear boundary, not a debate.
  4. Pull in witnesses and staff. Tell another parent: “I don’t feel safe — can you stay with us while we leave / while I call?” If the park has staff/security/rangers, ask them to walk with you and help you get to your car or a safer area.
  5. Decide between 911 and a non-emergency report.
    • Call 911 if you feel in immediate danger, the person is escalating, blocking your path, making threats, trying to lure a child away, or you believe a crime is happening.
    • If you’re safe now but it’s repeated and concerning, call your local police non-emergency number to log it and ask what they want you to do if it happens again. If you don’t know the number, look it up once you’re safe — don’t delay leaving or getting help if you feel threatened.
    • If you’re in a national park and it’s not an emergency, you can also submit a tip to the National Park Service; in an emergency, dial 911.
  6. Capture details while prioritizing movement. Note time, exact location, what happened, description, and any vehicle plate if you can see it. If it’s clearly safe, you can take a photo/video from a distance — but don’t do anything that keeps you in place, distracts you from your children, or provokes the person. If you skip filming, write details immediately after.
  7. If you can’t safely leave, “go public” instead of private. Move into a place with people and staff, ask someone to stay with you, and keep your kids close until help arrives or you can depart safely.
  8. After you’re away, write a short incident log. In plain language: what happened, where, when, who saw it, what you said (“stop approaching us”), and what the person did next. If there’s a pattern, this helps law enforcement understand repeated conduct.

What can wait

  • Figuring out whether it legally qualifies as stalking or harassment.
  • Trying to identify the person yourself.
  • Posting about it online or warning others publicly.
  • Deciding about protective orders — that’s a later step if the behavior continues.

Important reassurance

You don’t need to “prove” intent to prioritize your family’s safety. Repeated unwanted approaches — especially involving children — are enough reason to leave, enlist help, and report.

Scope note

This is first-step guidance for the next minutes and hours: create distance, get witnesses/support, and make a clear report if needed. If the behavior continues, consider a longer-term safety plan with appropriate local support.

Important note

This is general information, not legal advice. If you believe you or your children are in immediate danger, call 911.

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