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What to do if…
you think someone is following you and they are still nearby

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Short answer

Go into a busy, staffed place and call 911 if you feel at immediate risk. Do not go home or somewhere quiet to check whether they are really following you.

Do not do these things

  • Do not head straight home or reveal where you live by going there.
  • Do not confront them, threaten them, or try to intimidate them back.
  • Do not cut through isolated areas such as alleys, stairwells, empty parking lots, or quiet trails.
  • Do not accept a ride or a private place to wait from a random stranger.
  • Do not film openly in a way that escalates the situation or drains your battery.
  • Do not assume you must be certain before asking for help.

What to do now

  1. Move to a staffed anchor location immediately. Go into the nearest place with employees and other people, such as a grocery store, pharmacy, coffee shop, hotel lobby, hospital lobby, or gas station store. Stay inside.
  2. Tell staff directly: “I think someone is following me and they are still nearby. I need to stay here while I get help.” Ask a manager, security guard, or employee to stand with you and keep you away from the door.
  3. Call 911 if you believe you are in physical danger, a crime may be happening, or you need immediate police help. Tell the call-taker where you are, what is happening, what the person looks like, and whether they are outside, approaching, waiting, blocking your path, or following in a vehicle. Stay on the line until the call-taker says you can hang up.
  4. If you are safely inside and it no longer feels immediate, still ask for help before leaving. Ask staff to call security, help you find the local police non-emergency number, or wait with you while you arrange a safe ride or escort.
  5. Stay put; do not try to lose them on foot. Let the staffed location be your buffer. If the person leaves, remain inside until you have a safer way to leave.
  6. Share your situation without stepping outside. Call someone you trust and keep them on the line. Share your live location and the name or address of the place where you are.
  7. Note identifying details only if it is safe and subtle. Notice clothing, approximate age and height, direction of travel, vehicle make, model, color, and license plate if already visible. Do not stare, point, or go outside to get details.
  8. If you are in a car, keep doors locked and windows up. Do not drive home. Drive to a busy public place or, if nearby, a police, sheriff, or fire station; do not rely on a lobby being open. Call 911 if you feel threatened and follow dispatcher instructions rather than stopping somewhere isolated.
  9. If you are in a rideshare or taxi and feel unsafe, do not go home. Change the destination to a busy, staffed place if you can, and say clearly: “Please drop me at this public place instead.” Once inside, call 911 if you feel at risk.

What can wait

  • You do not need to decide whether this is stalking, harassment, or a crime right now.
  • You do not need to gather perfect evidence, post online, or message anyone connected to the person.
  • You do not need to make big decisions today, such as moving, changing routines, or buying devices. Focus only on getting to a safer place and getting help if needed.

Important reassurance

Freezing, doubting yourself, or feeling embarrassed about asking for help are common stress responses. Choosing a staffed place and involving help is a sensible protective step even if you are not completely sure what is happening.

Scope note

These are first steps for the immediate situation only. If this repeats, involves someone you know, or continues around your home, work, school, or regular routes, later decisions may need specialist support, victim services, or local legal help.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, medical, therapeutic, security, or other professional advice. If you feel in immediate danger, call 911.

Additional Resources

Closely connected guides that may be useful during the same situation or its immediate aftermath.

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