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What to do if…
a neighbour is threatening you or repeatedly knocking on your door

Produced and maintained by PanicStation.org Published: Last reviewed: Editorial policy UK guide

Short answer

Stay inside with the door locked and do not engage face-to-face. If someone is in immediate danger, a crime is happening now, there are threats of violence, or someone is trying to force entry, call 999.

Do not do these things

  • Do not open the door to calm it down or step outside to argue.
  • Do not threaten back, shout through the door, or escalate with insults.
  • Do not follow them outside, film them in a way that puts you at risk, or try to physically block them.
  • Do not assume it is just a neighbour dispute if there are threats, attempted forced entry, or you feel unsafe right now.
  • Do not post about it live on social media or message mutual neighbours while the situation is still active.

What to do now

  1. Create a safer pause inside. Lock the door, close accessible windows, and move away from the doorway and ground-floor windows. If you can, go to a room with a second exit and keep your phone with you.
  2. Call 999 if this is happening now and feels dangerous. Use 999 if someone is threatening violence, trying to get in, refusing to leave while threatening you, or if anyone is in immediate danger.
  3. If you cannot speak safely, do not force yourself to speak loudly. You can still call 999 and follow the operator’s prompts. If speaking through the door would escalate things, stay away from the door.
  4. Use one calm sentence only if you need to respond. Say, “I’m not opening the door. Please leave.” Then stop engaging.
  5. When it is safe enough, report non-emergency threats or repeated intimidation. Call 101 or use your local police force’s online contact options. Ask for an incident or reference number.
  6. Make one brief evidence note while it is fresh. Write down the time, what was said, how long it lasted, whether they knocked, shouted, threatened violence, damaged anything, or tried the door, and who may have seen or heard it.
  7. Save existing footage or messages without putting yourself at risk. Keep doorbell camera footage, voicemails, texts, photos of damage, or screenshots if you already have them. Do not go to the doorway to capture new footage.
  8. Report through the housing route if one applies. If you have a landlord, housing officer, council or housing association contact, or building manager, report the incident as a safety concern and ask how they want future incidents logged.

What can wait

  • You do not need to decide tonight whether to move, start a civil claim, complain formally, or solve the underlying neighbour dispute.
  • You do not need to write a perfect statement now. A short factual note and an official report are enough for the moment.
  • You do not need to confront them, mediate, or explain your side while they are outside your home.
  • If this becomes persistent after reports to the police, council, or housing provider, you can later ask about an anti-social behaviour case review, formerly called the community trigger, if your local threshold may be met.

Important reassurance

It is common to freeze, shake, or feel confused when someone is threatening you at your own door. Keeping the door shut, creating distance, and getting the incident logged are protective, sensible steps.

Scope note

This is first-steps-only guidance for the next minutes and hours. Ongoing neighbour disputes, harassment, threats, or antisocial behaviour may need structured support from your housing provider, local authority, police, or specialist advice later.

Important note

This is general information, not legal, medical, financial, therapeutic, or other professional advice. If you think you are in immediate danger, prioritise safety and emergency help.

Additional Resources

Closely connected guides that may be useful during the same situation or its immediate aftermath.

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